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The Molding of Masters and Slaves
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Feb 22 2012, 4:19 pm
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Being kind of new to my alternative relationship many argue that I don't know what I am talking about when it comes to speaking about who molds who. Just because I am new to the lifestyle doesn't mean that I am new to the basic fundementals. They are the same whether your a kind or "vanilla." But on to the topic question: When in a Master/slave relationship, are slaves the only ones that are molded? My answer to this question from a slave's viewpoint is: No, Masters are molded just as much as slaves are maybe not in the exact same ways but some are similar. In this paper I shall refer to slaves as "she" nd Masters as "He." I do this because that is the relationship that I know from personal experience. But i am very sure that this works with any relationship. But where to start. I am going to start with the aspect that I know best. I shall start with a slave's point of view.
Slave.... just the simple word makes many people cringe in disgust or pity. "Slaves are doormats that are forced to change themselves into what their Masters want or desire." My opinion, this extremely common statement is far from truth. First of all being a slave is the choice of that person. She chooses to be molded by her Master. She chooses to allow herself to be changed into a better slave and a better person. That is something that very few people understand. Being a slave isn't just about service and working to be of the greatest service, it is also about working to always make yourself a better person. Yes a slave is always thinking of way to better serve her Master. But she also makes sure that her service does not affect her Master badly. Unfortanetely there are slaves that do mold their Masters in a bad way. They act like brats and constantly disobey their Master which in turn causes the Master to become resentful and displeased with his slave. To act in such a way not only makes the slave look bad but also makes others question the Masters training and his control over his girl. For a Master to be questioned is to dishonor him. When a Master is constantly dishonored he begins to expect it therefore he becomes stricter on his girl. But there is another side and that is the girl moldng positively. when a girl obeys and always does her best to make her Master proud the Master feels that He doesn't have to be as strict and therefore the Master is kind and more affectionate. It is my opinion that every good slave should always strive to mold their Masters positively. To be with a happy and content Master makes the slaves life so much better and more comfortable. Life is easier with a positively molded Master. Not to mention it gives the slave a wonderful sense of pride to see her Master happy and pleased with her. I am going to focus on the positive slaves. Any slave will tell you that not only does she have the need but also the right to respectfully commincate when she doesn't agree with something. She knows that her Master is always concerned with her well being whether it be mental, physical, or emotional. Slaves should always know that they can talk to their Masters about everything and should do so. Open communication is a very important factor in the molding of both Master and slave. To lack in communication is to lack trust and respect for each other. If a slave doesn't communicate properly and openly with her Master the she can't expect to be able to serve proudly and with dignity. She will always feel as thought she is hiding things and lieing and no Master will be pleased with that. And for any slave to think that is ok is very wrong even if it is done with good intentions. I have learned that from experience....lieing is lieing no matter the intentions. A good slave would never do it. A good slave is also respectful to her Master even if she is upset, angry, or hurt. A good slave is never disrespectful whether she is in her Masters presence or not. Respect shown even when not in her Master's presence shows loyalty and devotion. There are many Masters that see that in another Master's girl and they become slightly jealous because their girls are nothing like that. It may seem like a bad thing to strive for but I feel that striving to be the slave that others look up to is a good thing as long as you never let it go to your head. A slave can become too proud and become arrogant. That is when things can go badly. So what does a slave offer that helps mold her Master? A good slave offer a lot to her Master such as her obiediance, her devotion, her loyalty, her submission, her love and affection, her admiration, her companionship, as well as her service in any way desired. To many people that seems like a lot for someone to give to another.But to a devoted slave like me there is nothing that we wouldn't give to our Masters. I know that for me I would give the world to my Master if I could. Devotion that strong is rare anymore but it is still around. A slave should always remember one thing and that is this: You have chosen to be in this relationship and you chose to give youself to your Master so that he may mold you into a wonderful piece of art. You are His artwork just as He is yours. Always do your best to show that molding, that artwork in everything that you do and in every way that you present yourself in his presence and out of it. Do that and you will have a wonderful and fulfilling life with your Master.
And now onto the aspect and role that is not very well known to me.... the role of the Master. First of all wht does a Master do? What does He offer to the relationship and the slave? A Master offers His guidance to His slave as well as his advice, his love, his affection, his attention, and so much more. The way a Master molds is very different than the way a slave molds there is no doubt about that. Where a slave molds through her submission and her obiediance her Master mold through his guidance, control, and his nurturing. Masters slowly and carefully mold their slaves not only into what they desire but also into a better person in general. Many people believe that a Master supresses a slaves voice and thoughts. Well I am here to tell you that is not true at all. My Master has already told me that he expects me to voice my opinion as long as I am respectful about it. And he would never tell me how or what to think. Master encourage their girls to think freely as well as to be able to stand on their own if ever they need to do so. A good Master is always happy to offer advice, love, affection, and attention to his girl. But at the same time Masters are also willing to give punishments when they are needed. Master know that sometimes slaves need to be punished to learn from their mistakes. They also know how to judge the proper punishment to fit the lesson beeing tuaght or the deviance being dealt with. Master can be bad influences just as slaves can be. A Master's bad influence tends to happan when he either neglects giving his girl attention or through abusive behavior such as punishments that are too extreme for the infraction. but as I have already shown Master can also be wonderful influences. Some can take a protected and scared slave and help her bloom into something magnificent and beautiful. To many on-lookers it would seem like maintaining control would be a very difficult task for a Master and for some unfortanetely it is but for the ones that have well molded slaves maintianing that control is a very simple task. Now granted there are some Masters that occasionally punish their girls for no apparent reason but there is a reason and it is to remind her of her place. Masters, good Masters, have a reason for every punishment the administor to their girls. This reminder not only keeps the girl from stepping out of line but also it helps to maintain the structure that the Master has given to his slave's life. Without this structure the girl would have no sense or purpose nor would her Master have any set expectations.
Many do not agree that slaves can mold just as Masters can. Well I am living proof that it can and does happen. I have seen many changes in my own Master since being collared by Him. Changes that in my eyes are wonderful changes. I have seen him blossom even more as a Master, not that he wasn't already a wonderful Master. I proudly show myself to the world as my Master's beautiful work of art. Every good slave should do the same for their own Masters.
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