My Girl

By: Stocsnbnds Mood: Happy Date: Jul 24 2008, 5:22 pm Music: None

My relationship is going great with my girl. She fulfills every part of my life. I was concerned in the beginning that this may not work. See, I tend to be a harder player than many.  Don’t get me wrong, I can ease up and have a lighter or even sensual scene. However, I really enjoy playing with the brain. I find that harder play creates a struggle within one’s self. It tends to cause more effects and reactions than just the physical sensation of the activity. After all, the brain is the center of everything. Pain, intensity, discomfort, and obvious submission are all ways that to do this. Hard and intense play can be particularly difficult for a girl with almost no experience. When our journey started, she had very little experience in the lifestyle. She was pretty sure what she wanted out of a Master.  I knew what I was getting into though. I was well aware that it was going to take time to get her where I wanted her to be. However, there are advantages to a submissive that has never been collared before. I had no bad habits to break and I did not have to be compared to the previous Master. I could mould and shape her into what I wanted from the start.  She has been quite a challenge for me. Not because we have had problems. Challenging because I had to start from scratch and not move to fast.  There were times that it seemed like we were barely moving and that tends to make me a bit jittery. She started very open minded and has stayed that way.  It has been awesome watching her grow. When we began, there were several things that she had as soft limits. Some of these things were activities that I wanted from her.  Slowly, most of them have been accomplished and moved out of that soft limit category. Quite a few of them have moved into the “WOW, I love that” category. I think fear and trust were one of her issues in the beginning. I can understand and respect that totally. Over the months that respect and trust has grown. I encourage her and take full responsibility for her training and teaching. There are a few hurdles still to tackle. I feel she is ready for them and is wanted to keep growing. I think she is growing into my perfect submissive and partner for life.

  I am just so fortunate to have her. I could not be happier.  She is mine!