My interests and desires as a real time and online dominant are diverse and eclectic, pushing the boundaries of BDSM. I share my life with my husband of many years solipsist; you can read of our explorations in our D/s relationship on our blog Mistress160's Abode. Sol and I recently moved to a very private location to continue those explorations as eco kinksters!
I enjoy documenting alternative cultures and art inspired by fetish, and post about these topics on Kink Culture. I am also very active in BDSM education, both real time and online. I run skill share workshops and write on BDSM education as a regular feature writer for " Kink-E Magazine".
Online, my blog features my very popular BDSM For Beginners series (this series can now be found on it's own blog ), and I also administer / moderate sites such as Fetish Lore (a forum we created for kinksters who feel outside the box), FemSubStartingPlace (an education / support group for female subs), and here at MDS (where I help moderate the forum and also run the Forced Feminization, Friends of Friends and Kinky Style groups, as well as my latest 2008 group The Hunt. I also moderate a private Mistress forum. Any Dommes who would like to join the latter - or female subs interested in FSSP - please drop me a line.
SUBS WISHING TO CONTACT MS160:
While I always enjoy conversations and making friends, please respect that I am blissfully happy within my 24/7 D/s marriage and currently not seeking new submissives at this time.
FRIENDS REQUESTS:
I am a little old fashioned and prefer to actually know my friends, so please send me a message when you request my friendship, to introduce yourself. Thank you!
Turn ons
A well trained sub, kneeling, waiting...
Perfectly symmetrical cane cuts...
Planning complex scenes for my subs...
Writing them up in my blog afterwards...
The deep warmth of well spanked buttocks...
The little noise / whimper solipsist makes after being gently humiliated...
The swish of my favorite cane (seen in my avatar)...
The pleasure of having privacy for outdoor scenes, such as animal play or the hunt...
The way my online sub bimbo used the word BLUSH in chat / play...
Pain...
A well trained sub, kneeling, waiting...
My scarlet suede boots...
Extending the moment before I strike...
Clover clamps pulled tight on nipples, their chain taut in my fingers...
The embarrassed, humiliated "can't believe I am doing this" look Ms160sSecretPet gives me on cam after I've just given instructions for play...
Judging photo contests in my Forced Feminization group here at MDS....
Strap-ons...
Running my fingertips over raised welts...
Watching solipsist take off his garter belt and stockings...
The scent of the perfume I only wear for play (Chanel's Cuir de Russie)...
Smooth, hairless balls in a ball stretcher...
The moment after the drop of wax falls from the candle, before it lands on skin...
Watching Fetish Diva Midori deliver a sensuous deerskin flogging...
bimbo's conversations when she's been drinking expensive Australian red wine...
Otter's fur...
The soft black leather of my opera gloves, fingertips removed so as not to reduce sensation...
A well trained sub, kneeling, waiting...
Turn offs
Discourtesy
Which, with respect, includes:
- Friends requests from people who have not read the related info on my profile (see above)
- Requests to serve from subs, who have not read the related info on my profile (see above)
- Form letters from subs
- Letters not addressed to me by name
- Correspondents who are rude to, or who do not bother to thank, the sub who handles my unsolicited mail
As one of my hobbies is CBT I thought you might like to view this You Tube montage of some of my favorite CBT moments. More photos from these BDSM scenes can be viewed in my Gallery. Videos of my scenes can be found on my blog.
(music: from "The English Patient" soundtrack)
Activities
24/7 (Total Power Exchange), Arse (Ass) Play, Blindfolds, Bondage, Branding, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Candle Wax, Chastity Devices, Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads, Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc., Collar and Lead/Leash, Cross Dressing, Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons), Discipline, Domination/submission, Edgeplay, Electrotorture (EMS TENS units), Feminization, Fire Play, Floggers/Cats, High Heels, Humiliation, Hunt-and-Capture, Knife/Needle Play, Lace/Lingerie, Leather, Massage, Oral Sex (Receiving), Pain, Pantyhose/Stockings, Participating in Erotic Photography, Pet Play, Piercings, Play Piercing, Power Exchange, Sadism, Sissification, Spanking/Paddling, Suspensions, Toys, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Vibrators, Whips
Thank you very much for the invite. Am honored. Please allow me for a moment to be sad and mourn the loss of my second home, the dreamsite, and over 500 posts, friends, poems with it. You know what happened at my first home, so think you can understand my feelings right now. All the more reason for me to really appreciate your message!! Thanks again!
